Dr. Hoff-Sommers has recently written an article which has been published by TIME magazine titled “What Schools Can Do To Help Boys Succeed.”ย It has been successful in generating quite a discussion and positive feedback.
I agree with most of her article, and will provide some of my own observations over the course of my study of boys’ educational issues that run parallel to hers. She begins (my comments are interspersed):
Being a boy can be a serious liability in todayโs classroom.ย As a group, boys are noisy, rowdy and hard to manage.ย Many are messy, disorganized and wonโt sit still.ย
And that is why Dr. Gurian, as I mentioned in my review of his bookย Boys and Girls Learn Differently, recommends two teachers for each average preschool/kindergarten classroom (one teacher just can’t take care of all of them), and an increased use of methods to allow boys to physically “act out education,” so to speak, which minimizes their desire to “act out” in other ways.
Young male rambunctiousness, according to a recentย study, leads teachers to underestimate their intellectual and academic abilities. โGirl behavior is the gold standard inย schools,โย saysย psychologist Michael Thompson. โBoys are treated like defective girls.โ
And boys are treated like defective girls in more ways than just how schools teach verbal concepts. They are also punished for misbehavior while girls are given a free pass, as seen in the case when both boys and girls in an Oregon school were slapping other students’ bottoms, and only the boys were punished. In addition, schools almost never punish female students for making false accusations of abuse, as Title IX Coordinator Michele Vieira kindly confirmed for me.
These โdefective girlsโ are not faring well academically. Compared with girls, boys earn lower grades, win fewer honors and are less likely to go to college. One education expert has quipped that if current trends continue, the last male will graduate from college in 2068. In todayโs knowledge-based economy, success in the classroom has never been more crucial to a young personโs life prospects. Women are adapting; men are not.
Some may say, โToo bad for the boys.โ The ability to regulate oneโs impulses, sit still and pay attention are building blocks of success in school and in life. As one critic told me, the classroom is no more rigged against boys than workplaces are rigged against lazy or unfocused workers. That is absurd: unproductive workers are adults โ not 5- and 6-year-old children who depend on us to learn how to become adults. If boys are restive and unfocused, we must look for ways to help them do better.
In addition, the workplace has a much more diverse means of engaging with its tasks than academia. Not every job requires sitting down 95% of the time. Many retail jobs – both lower-level and management – require frequent movement.
The workplace is also focused onย getting things done that have clear, practical, empowering goals. Too often, schools send the message that what they are doing is “busy work” that has no real-life practical value, and that “getting a grade is its own reward.” Those kinds of messages cause boys to tune out.ย I know it tuned me out.
Dr. Hoff-Sommers has three main suggestions:
1. Bring Back Recess
Schools everywhere have cut back on breaks. Recess, in many schools, may soon be a thing of the past. According to a researchย summaryย by Science Daily, since the 1970s, schoolchildren have lost close to 50% of their unstructured outdoor playtime.ย Thirty-nine percentย of first-graders today get 20 minutes of recess each day โ or less. (By contrast,ย children in Japanย get 10 minutes of play each hour.)
Prolonged confinement in classrooms diminishes childrenโs concentration and leads to squirming and restlessness. And boysย appearย to be more seriously affected by recess deprivation than girls. โParents should be aware,โย warnย two university researchers, โthat classroom organization may be responsible for their sonsโ inattention and fidgeting and that breaks may be a better remedy than Ritalin.โ
I would also like to make note of something regarding recess and unstructured play that I haven’t seen MRAs mention before, but have recently had the pleasure of reading in Peg Tyre’s bookย The Trouble with Boys. Part of the decrease in boys’ free playtime (“unstructured play”) is due not just to educational trends at school, but social and economic trends as well.
In particular, over the past half-century western countries have seen an explosion in urban and suburban development. Whereas in the early 20th century most people lived in small farming communities out “in the country,” these have been largely replaced with the suburbs. And while it used to be common for children to play outside and roam across a wide swath of land, many kids now live in small cookie-cutter communities with just a small patch of land out front. And out of fear of crime, many parents no longer let their children outside to play.
Dr. Hoff-Sommers continues:
2. Turn Boys Into Readers
A few years ago, novelist Ian McEwan found he had many duplicate books in his library. So he and his son went to a nearby park during the lunch hour and tried to give them away. Young women eagerly accepted them. The guys,ย saysย McEwan, โfrowned in suspicion, or distaste. When they were assured they would not have to part with their money, they still could not be persuaded. โNah, nah. Not for me.โ โ
โNot for me,โ is a common male reaction to reading, and it shows up in test scores. Year after year, in all age groups, across all ethnic lines, in every state in the union, boys score lower than girls on national reading tests. Good reading skills are โ need I say? โ critical to academic and workplace success. The British, faced with a similar literacy gap, launched a national campaign to engage boys with the written word.
In a majorย reportย released last year by the British Parliamentโs Boysโ Reading Commission, the authors openly acknowledge sex differences and use a color-coded chart to illustrate boysโ and girlsโ different reading preferences: girls prefer fiction, magazines, blogs and poetry; boys like comics, nonfiction and newspapers.
It is hard to imagine the U.S. Department of Education producing such a report. So far, the plight of boys is nowhere on its agenda. But if American parents and educators adopted the British commissionโs top three recommendations, it is likely we would significantly narrow the gender gap in reading:
-
- Every teacher should have an up-to-date knowledge of reading materials that will appeal to disengaged boys.
- Every boy should have weekly support from a male reading role model.
- Parents need access to information on how successful schools are in supporting boysโ literacy.
Boys will read when they find material they like.ย Guysread.comย is the place to go for lists of books that have proved irresistible to boys.
I’ve bolded the above section for emphasis. We must start putting pressure on the Department of Education. Richard Whitmire, a longtime education reporter and former president of the National Educational Writers Association, criticizes the Dept. of Ed. more than any other entityย inย Why Boys Fail. See my review of his book here.
The reality is that many administrators are afraid of doingย anything if they don’t have the paternalistic (maternalistic?) hand of another institution holding their hand the entire time. They are also afraid of sticking their neck out and taking much of the liability of speaking up for boys upon themselves.
Yes, boys’ literacy skills are an essential part of pro-male advocacy in school – just as essential as math concepts are to pro-girl educational advocacy. In addition to Guysread.com, I would also recommend the bookย Misreading Masculinity by Dr. Thomas Newkirk.
3. Work With the Young Male Imagination
In his delightfulย Boy Writers: Reclaiming their Voices, celebrated author and writing instructor Ralph Fletcher advises teachers to consider their assignments from the point of view of boys. Too many writing teachers, he says, take the โconfessional poetโ as the classroom ideal. Personal narratives full of emotion and self-disclosure are prized; stories describing video games, skateboard competitions or a monster devouring a city are not.
Peg Tyreโsย The Trouble With Boysย illustrates the point. She tells the story of a third-grader in Southernย Californiaย named Justin who lovedย Star Wars, pirates, wars and weapons. An alarmed teacher summoned his parents to school to discuss a picture the 8-year-old had drawn of a sword fight โ which included several decapitated heads. The teacher expressed โconcernโ about Justinโs โvalues.โ The father, astonished by the teacherโs repugnance for a typical boy drawing, wondered if his son could ever win the approval of someone who had so little sympathy for the childโs imagination.
Teachers have to come to terms with the young male spirit. As Fletcher urges, if we want boys to flourish, we are going to have to encourage their distinctive reading, writing, drawing and even joke-telling propensities. Along with personal โreflection journals,โ Fletcher suggests teachers permit fantasy, horror, spoofs, humor, war, conflict and, yes, even lurid sword fights.
If boys areย constantlyย subject to disapproval for their interests and enthusiasms, they are likely to become disengaged and lag further behind. Our schools need to work with, not against, the kinetic imaginations of boysย to move them toward becoming educated young men.
Much of the disapproval directed toward boys has been tied up in the hysteria over school violence, which ratcheted up considerably during the Columbine High School Massacre and has been rising ever since. Concepts of violence may be difficult for some men’s advocates to address. How do you, for example, agree that boys should be allowed to write about physical conflict without tacitly promoting violence?
There are several answers to this question.ย First, there is always the concept of academic freedom, something which is almost always referred to as the right of faculty members to write and say what they want. Given that students in lower education are subject to restricted freedoms under the legal concept ofย in loco parentisย (wherein teachers and faculty act in the place of parents), I suggest an alternative or parallel approach.
The reality is that the majority of boys’ writings on physical confrontations do not advocate violence as we normally conceptualize it. When we think of violence, we normally think of someone assaulting someone. Self-defense, however, is not normally characterized as violence per se. And much of boys’ writings involves the positives of defending either oneself or others from evil forces.
The story in Peg Tyre’s book of Justin, the third-grader in Southern California, also reminds me of what Dr. Gurian says inย Boys and Girls Learn Differently: sometimes teachers react the way they do not because what boys are doing is inherently wrong, but because it bugs them. Because it makes them…here’s the magic word…uncomfortable.
Being “uncomfortable” is a loaded word in academia. Being “made to feel uncomfortable” isย often a precursor to charges of harassment (both slanderous and legitimate). But discomfort also occurs when people or situations challenge our normative experiences.
Sometimes it is not the fault of the person who challenges our comfort zone. Sometimes it is our fault because we think that the bubble we live in represents the entire world around us. As sociologists and criminologists often point out, “deviance” is not necessarily mean “bad”; it is just something that is not the norm.
And what is normal for boys might not be normal for a 24 to 52-year-old female teacher whose peer group is primarily composed of people of the same sex/gender, many of whom have long forgotten what it is like to be a kid, and none of whom have known what it is like to be a boy. This is what is normal in lower education. It is not misandry, but it is gynocentrism, a type of institutional bias.
We live in a pluralistic society. Knowing this, why can’t our educational institutions just be more tolerant of diversity?
Now that is an interestingย question.ย Well done, Dr. Hoff-Sommers.
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Dr. Hoff-Sommers has recently written an article which has been published by TIME magazine titled “What Schools Can Do To Help Boys Succeed.”ย It has been successful in generating quite a discussion and positive feedback.
I agree with most of her article, and will provide some of my own observations over the course of my study of boys’ educational issues that run parallel to hers. She begins (my comments are interspersed):
Being a boy can be a serious liability in todayโs classroom.ย As a group, boys are noisy, rowdy and hard to manage.ย Many are messy, disorganized and wonโt sit still.ย
And that is why Dr. Gurian, as I mentioned in my review of his bookย Boys and Girls Learn Differently, recommends two teachers for each average preschool/kindergarten classroom (one teacher just can’t take care of all of them), and an increased use of methods to allow boys to physically “act out education,” so to speak, which minimizes their desire to “act out” in other ways.
Young male rambunctiousness, according to a recentย study, leads teachers to underestimate their intellectual and academic abilities. โGirl behavior is the gold standard inย schools,โย saysย psychologist Michael Thompson. โBoys are treated like defective girls.โ
And boys are treated like defective girls in more ways than just how schools teach verbal concepts. They are also punished for misbehavior while girls are given a free pass, as seen in the case when both boys and girls in an Oregon school were slapping other students’ bottoms, and only the boys were punished. In addition, schools almost never punish female students for making false accusations of abuse, as Title IX Coordinator Michele Vieira kindly confirmed for me.
These โdefective girlsโ are not faring well academically. Compared with girls, boys earn lower grades, win fewer honors and are less likely to go to college. One education expert has quipped that if current trends continue, the last male will graduate from college in 2068. In todayโs knowledge-based economy, success in the classroom has never been more crucial to a young personโs life prospects. Women are adapting; men are not.
Some may say, โToo bad for the boys.โ The ability to regulate oneโs impulses, sit still and pay attention are building blocks of success in school and in life. As one critic told me, the classroom is no more rigged against boys than workplaces are rigged against lazy or unfocused workers. That is absurd: unproductive workers are adults โ not 5- and 6-year-old children who depend on us to learn how to become adults. If boys are restive and unfocused, we must look for ways to help them do better.
In addition, the workplace has a much more diverse means of engaging with its tasks than academia. Not every job requires sitting down 95% of the time. Many retail jobs – both lower-level and management – require frequent movement.
The workplace is also focused onย getting things done that have clear, practical, empowering goals. Too often, schools send the message that what they are doing is “busy work” that has no real-life practical value, and that “getting a grade is its own reward.” Those kinds of messages cause boys to tune out.ย I know it tuned me out.
Dr. Hoff-Sommers has three main suggestions:
1. Bring Back Recess
Schools everywhere have cut back on breaks. Recess, in many schools, may soon be a thing of the past. According to a researchย summaryย by Science Daily, since the 1970s, schoolchildren have lost close to 50% of their unstructured outdoor playtime.ย Thirty-nine percentย of first-graders today get 20 minutes of recess each day โ or less. (By contrast,ย children in Japanย get 10 minutes of play each hour.)
Prolonged confinement in classrooms diminishes childrenโs concentration and leads to squirming and restlessness. And boysย appearย to be more seriously affected by recess deprivation than girls. โParents should be aware,โย warnย two university researchers, โthat classroom organization may be responsible for their sonsโ inattention and fidgeting and that breaks may be a better remedy than Ritalin.โ
I would also like to make note of something regarding recess and unstructured play that I haven’t seen MRAs mention before, but have recently had the pleasure of reading in Peg Tyre’s bookย The Trouble with Boys. Part of the decrease in boys’ free playtime (“unstructured play”) is due not just to educational trends at school, but social and economic trends as well.
In particular, over the past half-century western countries have seen an explosion in urban and suburban development. Whereas in the early 20th century most people lived in small farming communities out “in the country,” these have been largely replaced with the suburbs. And while it used to be common for children to play outside and roam across a wide swath of land, many kids now live in small cookie-cutter communities with just a small patch of land out front. And out of fear of crime, many parents no longer let their children outside to play.
Dr. Hoff-Sommers continues:
2. Turn Boys Into Readers
A few years ago, novelist Ian McEwan found he had many duplicate books in his library. So he and his son went to a nearby park during the lunch hour and tried to give them away. Young women eagerly accepted them. The guys,ย saysย McEwan, โfrowned in suspicion, or distaste. When they were assured they would not have to part with their money, they still could not be persuaded. โNah, nah. Not for me.โ โ
โNot for me,โ is a common male reaction to reading, and it shows up in test scores. Year after year, in all age groups, across all ethnic lines, in every state in the union, boys score lower than girls on national reading tests. Good reading skills are โ need I say? โ critical to academic and workplace success. The British, faced with a similar literacy gap, launched a national campaign to engage boys with the written word.
In a majorย reportย released last year by the British Parliamentโs Boysโ Reading Commission, the authors openly acknowledge sex differences and use a color-coded chart to illustrate boysโ and girlsโ different reading preferences: girls prefer fiction, magazines, blogs and poetry; boys like comics, nonfiction and newspapers.
It is hard to imagine the U.S. Department of Education producing such a report. So far, the plight of boys is nowhere on its agenda. But if American parents and educators adopted the British commissionโs top three recommendations, it is likely we would significantly narrow the gender gap in reading:
-
- Every teacher should have an up-to-date knowledge of reading materials that will appeal to disengaged boys.
- Every boy should have weekly support from a male reading role model.
- Parents need access to information on how successful schools are in supporting boysโ literacy.
Boys will read when they find material they like.ย Guysread.comย is the place to go for lists of books that have proved irresistible to boys.
I’ve bolded the above section for emphasis. We must start putting pressure on the Department of Education. Richard Whitmire, a longtime education reporter and former president of the National Educational Writers Association, criticizes the Dept. of Ed. more than any other entityย inย Why Boys Fail. See my review of his book here.
The reality is that many administrators are afraid of doingย anything if they don’t have the paternalistic (maternalistic?) hand of another institution holding their hand the entire time. They are also afraid of sticking their neck out and taking much of the liability of speaking up for boys upon themselves.
Yes, boys’ literacy skills are an essential part of pro-male advocacy in school – just as essential as math concepts are to pro-girl educational advocacy. In addition to Guysread.com, I would also recommend the bookย Misreading Masculinity by Dr. Thomas Newkirk.
3. Work With the Young Male Imagination
In his delightfulย Boy Writers: Reclaiming their Voices, celebrated author and writing instructor Ralph Fletcher advises teachers to consider their assignments from the point of view of boys. Too many writing teachers, he says, take the โconfessional poetโ as the classroom ideal. Personal narratives full of emotion and self-disclosure are prized; stories describing video games, skateboard competitions or a monster devouring a city are not.
Peg Tyreโsย The Trouble With Boysย illustrates the point. She tells the story of a third-grader in Southernย Californiaย named Justin who lovedย Star Wars, pirates, wars and weapons. An alarmed teacher summoned his parents to school to discuss a picture the 8-year-old had drawn of a sword fight โ which included several decapitated heads. The teacher expressed โconcernโ about Justinโs โvalues.โ The father, astonished by the teacherโs repugnance for a typical boy drawing, wondered if his son could ever win the approval of someone who had so little sympathy for the childโs imagination.
Teachers have to come to terms with the young male spirit. As Fletcher urges, if we want boys to flourish, we are going to have to encourage their distinctive reading, writing, drawing and even joke-telling propensities. Along with personal โreflection journals,โ Fletcher suggests teachers permit fantasy, horror, spoofs, humor, war, conflict and, yes, even lurid sword fights.
If boys areย constantlyย subject to disapproval for their interests and enthusiasms, they are likely to become disengaged and lag further behind. Our schools need to work with, not against, the kinetic imaginations of boysย to move them toward becoming educated young men.
Much of the disapproval directed toward boys has been tied up in the hysteria over school violence, which ratcheted up considerably during the Columbine High School Massacre and has been rising ever since. Concepts of violence may be difficult for some men’s advocates to address. How do you, for example, agree that boys should be allowed to write about physical conflict without tacitly promoting violence?
There are several answers to this question.ย First, there is always the concept of academic freedom, something which is almost always referred to as the right of faculty members to write and say what they want. Given that students in lower education are subject to restricted freedoms under the legal concept ofย in loco parentisย (wherein teachers and faculty act in the place of parents), I suggest an alternative or parallel approach.
The reality is that the majority of boys’ writings on physical confrontations do not advocate violence as we normally conceptualize it. When we think of violence, we normally think of someone assaulting someone. Self-defense, however, is not normally characterized as violence per se. And much of boys’ writings involves the positives of defending either oneself or others from evil forces.
The story in Peg Tyre’s book of Justin, the third-grader in Southern California, also reminds me of what Dr. Gurian says inย Boys and Girls Learn Differently: sometimes teachers react the way they do not because what boys are doing is inherently wrong, but because it bugs them. Because it makes them…here’s the magic word…uncomfortable.
Being “uncomfortable” is a loaded word in academia. Being “made to feel uncomfortable” isย often a precursor to charges of harassment (both slanderous and legitimate). But discomfort also occurs when people or situations challenge our normative experiences.
Sometimes it is not the fault of the person who challenges our comfort zone. Sometimes it is our fault because we think that the bubble we live in represents the entire world around us. As sociologists and criminologists often point out, “deviance” is not necessarily mean “bad”; it is just something that is not the norm.
And what is normal for boys might not be normal for a 24 to 52-year-old female teacher whose peer group is primarily composed of people of the same sex/gender, many of whom have long forgotten what it is like to be a kid, and none of whom have known what it is like to be a boy. This is what is normal in lower education. It is not misandry, but it is gynocentrism, a type of institutional bias.
We live in a pluralistic society. Knowing this, why can’t our educational institutions just be more tolerant of diversity?
Now that is an interestingย question.ย Well done, Dr. Hoff-Sommers.
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“The workplace is also focused on getting things done that have clear, practical, empowering goals. Too often, schools send the message that what they are doing is โbusy workโ that has no real-life practical value, and that โgetting a grade is its own reward.โ Those kinds of messages cause boys to tune out. I know it tuned me out.”
OMG, that was me, 100%. I was the laziest student ever, and in my final three years of school I barely attended classes other than scheduled exams. I had one teacher who had us hand in our notes at the end of each unit, with all titles underlined in green ink and all sub-headings underlined in red ink, and a title page “enhanced with at least three colors”, blah blah blah. I held the record for the highest number of unexcused absences in my graduating class. And the widest ratio between exam scores and class-work marks (in grade 12 chemistry, my classwork mark was 7% and my test scores were 89%. Only project work, reports and labs saved me).
What is classwork? It’s either practice or busy work. If you don’t need the practice, why would you do the busy work if you could be doodling, or reading a novel?
My mom used to chastise me, saying when I was an adult I wouldn’t be able to skip work like I skipped school. But what I do at work is necessary. It has a purpose, even though it’s repetitive. The reward is tangible, and not just the reward to me–if I show up and do my work, others won’t be stuck taking up the slack. Customers leave satisfied rather than annoyed. The machine operates, and everyone benefits, and when you do your job well, a goal has been achieved.
If I didn’t show up to class, who suffered? Only me. Sort of, since all class was was boring assignments that didn’t teach me anything other than that school was the most boring endeavor in the universe. No one was depending on me to be in class. No one would go without dinner because I didn’t underline my titles in green. And nothing would be created that wasn’t fed to you with a spoon, while holding your mouth open and sitting on you so you couldn’t refuse.
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“Too often, schools send the message that what they are doing is โbusy workโ that has no real-life practical value, and that โgetting a grade is its own reward. Those kinds of messages cause boys to tune out. I know it tuned me out.”
This makes me recall a talk my grade 7/8 homeroom teacher had with me. He told me that I had the highest math test average in the class, but that I didn’t have the highest math mark as I rarely completed my homework.
To me, once I grasped the concept (i.e. addition), the math was not an issue for me. I did not feel I needed to apply the concept 30-50 times in order to get it, as I often felt I had better things to do, such as read a book. As such, this lead me to often do 10-15 questions, see that I understood it, and move on to other things.
The fact that I understood the math was reflected by my having the highest test scores in the class. Is it not understanding and knowledge that we seek to instill in students, or are we focused on making sure they complete mind-numbing repetition of concepts until they no longer wish to deal with the subject again?
Maybe this is why I moved on to the social sciences instead…
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In that teacher’s defence, at least when he saw I was reading 800 page novels, compared to my classmates reading short R.L. Stine “Goosebumps” books, he pushed for me to read high school level books such as Lord of the Flies. Unfortunately, I was then bored when I had to read the same stuff again in high school (though we did of course approach English more critically).
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“The workplace is also focused on getting things done that have clear, practical, empowering goals. Too often, schools send the message that what they are doing is โbusy workโ that has no real-life practical value, and that โgetting a grade is its own reward.โ Those kinds of messages cause boys to tune out. I know it tuned me out.”
OMG, that was me, 100%. I was the laziest student ever, and in my final three years of school I barely attended classes other than scheduled exams. I had one teacher who had us hand in our notes at the end of each unit, with all titles underlined in green ink and all sub-headings underlined in red ink, and a title page “enhanced with at least three colors”, blah blah blah. I held the record for the highest number of unexcused absences in my graduating class. And the widest ratio between exam scores and class-work marks (in grade 12 chemistry, my classwork mark was 7% and my test scores were 89%. Only project work, reports and labs saved me).
What is classwork? It’s either practice or busy work. If you don’t need the practice, why would you do the busy work if you could be doodling, or reading a novel?
My mom used to chastise me, saying when I was an adult I wouldn’t be able to skip work like I skipped school. But what I do at work is necessary. It has a purpose, even though it’s repetitive. The reward is tangible, and not just the reward to me–if I show up and do my work, others won’t be stuck taking up the slack. Customers leave satisfied rather than annoyed. The machine operates, and everyone benefits, and when you do your job well, a goal has been achieved.
If I didn’t show up to class, who suffered? Only me. Sort of, since all class was was boring assignments that didn’t teach me anything other than that school was the most boring endeavor in the universe. No one was depending on me to be in class. No one would go without dinner because I didn’t underline my titles in green. And nothing would be created that wasn’t fed to you with a spoon, while holding your mouth open and sitting on you so you couldn’t refuse.
There was an education article that was written a while ago that I wish I had saved. It made the argument that schools by their very structure were fundamentally inhibitive toward learning. The reason given was that the education environment evolved from religious study groups where repetition and conformity to a set of unquestionable ideas was prized above all.
Wish I could find it, but there’s probably been many like it, really, that I’ve missed.
“Too often, schools send the message that what they are doing is โbusy workโ that has no real-life practical value, and that โgetting a grade is its own reward. Those kinds of messages cause boys to tune out. I know it tuned me out.”
This makes me recall a talk my grade 7/8 homeroom teacher had with me. He told me that I had the highest math test average in the class, but that I didn’t have the highest math mark as I rarely completed my homework.
To me, once I grasped the concept (i.e. addition), the math was not an issue for me. I did not feel I needed to apply the concept 30-50 times in order to get it, as I often felt I had better things to do, such as read a book. As such, this lead me to often do 10-15 questions, see that I understood it, and move on to other things.
The fact that I understood the math was reflected by my having the highest test scores in the class. Is it not understanding and knowledge that we seek to instill in students, or are we focused on making sure they complete mind-numbing repetition of concepts until they no longer wish to deal with the subject again?
Maybe this is why I moved on to the social sciences instead…
In that teacher’s defence, at least when he saw I was reading 800 page novels, compared to my classmates reading short R.L. Stine “Goosebumps” books, he pushed for me to read high school level books such as Lord of the Flies. Unfortunately, I was then bored when I had to read the same stuff again in high school (though we did of course approach English more critically).